How To Make Your GirlFriend to Sleep With You On The First Date

Almost all guys want to sleep with a girl on the first date, but most of them simply don’t know how to go about asking. Admittedly this can be quite tricky, especially for guys who are not used to dating girls very much.

 You will obviously need to use quite a bit of tact when it comes to asking a girl to have sex with you on the first date, but there is a certain methodology that should be used.
A vast majority of girls want to have sex on the first date, but they are afraid of being judged as a slut if they make the first move, so it’s all going to be up to you. It is of course important to be in good shape, well-dressed and groomed, but your attitude is also going to be essential.
You need to have a positive attitude and an air of confidence if you are going to successfully get a girl to sleep with you on the first date.

You don’t want to simply jump into asking her if she wants to have sex, because chances are that isn’t going to go over very well at all. Instead you will need to keep touching her in a soft and subtle way throughout the night while maintaining complete confidence. Girls just don’t want to sleep with a guy who isn’t very confident in himself, so this is absolutely essential.
If you want to get her into bed on the first date, you will also need to make sure that you are a good kisser. Men who are good at kissing have a much easier time getting laid on the first date, so you will need to remember that as well.
 Some men are better kissers than others, but it’s a crucial skill for those who want to get some action early on. The point is that you don’t want to be too blunt when it comes to getting a girl to sleep with you on the first date.

Why first date sex is the absolute best

There are a lot of different reasons why first date sex is the absolute best. We all know that attraction has an expiration date, even if some of us don’t want to admit it. The fact is that your attraction to any one person will start to wane after a while, which is why it’s so important that you try to get laid early on.
The earlier on you have sex with the girl, the more enjoyment you will be able to get out of her. You don’t want to wait to have sex with her, because attraction simply doesn’t last as long as we might like. There is just something about first date sex that can be beaten.
 In the end you will be glad you put in the time and effort necessary for getting laid early on.

Finding the right Approach

You will find that there are a number of different approaches that you can use when it comes to getting a girl to have sex with you on the first date, and it’s important to know what some of them are. Some of these methods are more effective than others.

“Let’s just go at it for a few minutes and then you can leave if you want.”: This is a very clever and potentially effective way to get laid on a first date. This method will allow the girl to have sex on the first date without feeling too pressured or like she is making a big commitment.
The hope of course is that she will want to keep going after a few minutes because she enjoys it so much. It is obviously completely up to you to make sure she has a good enough time to where she will actually want to keep going.
“Let’s go into your bedroom and talk”: This can be a somewhat subtle and effective way to go about getting the two of you into her bedroom. You can start out having a nice conversation on the bed, but it will quickly turn into something hot and heavy if you play your cards right.
 Don’t hesitate to touch her leg gently as you are talking or while she is talking to you.

Framing the Date

It is important that you create the perfect frame for the first date by acting as polite and normal as possible. If you really want to get laid on the first day, it is very important that you start it off right. No girl will want to have sex with you on the first date if you are acting strange in any way.

 Make sure that you aren’t nervous at all beforehand, because the girl you are on a date with will most likely be able to tell. Acting obviously nervous means that she knows you aren’t that self-confident, which is a huge turn off.
You should also make sure that you are framing the date in a subtly sexual way right from the start. Whether it is something as small as a hug or perhaps touching her arm or leg briefly while talking, you will definitely need to get things started early on.
By doing this you will definitely be able to increase your chances of scoring on your first date.

Setting up

Make sure that your place is perfectly clean before you bring the girl you are on a date with back to it. Chances are she isn’t going to want to sleep with you if your house or apartment looks like a pig sty. You will also need to make sure that you have condoms within arm’s reach of your bed as well as a bottle of wine chilling in the fridge just in case she needs a drink to loosen up first.

 This is all considered to be good planning when it comes to having sex on the first date.

You should also make sure that you get to the date venue on time, but you don’t necessarily have to get there before she does, because she’ll probably be at least 5 minutes late. This will give you the opportunity to get a drink or two in your system before the date actually gets started.

You obviously don’t want to be completely drunk, but you also might not want to be entirely sober. A little bit of alcohol could give you the liquid courage you need to get through your date without any issues.

Greet, Touch and Compliment

There are some key things that you will need to remember to do, including greeting her with a warm smile and a hug. This is very important because it will ultimately set the mood of the whole date, so you don’t want to mess it up.

 The way your date starts will determine how well it is going to go all the way until the end.
As you release her from the hug, make sure that you usher her into her seat like a gentleman.

You will basically want to make it your goal to be as polite as possible all night long so that you can get laid later on. Most girls will only sleep with a guy on the first date if they seem really nice and sweet, so you should therefore make that your goal right from the start.
You can think of yourself as a sexual salesman, so you should therefore view her at your client or potential client.

 This means that you will need to be on your best behaviour the whole time. When you ask a girl to sleep with you on the first date, make sure that you aren’t too crass. Girls tend to not like men who are too straightforward, so keep this in mind as well. You should also make sure that you have had a decent amount of normal conversation before asking her to sleep with you.

Make sure that you compliment the girl’s physical appearance, mentioning specific things like her hair or skin. Most women love to be complimented and totally lap it up, and it definitely doesn’t hurt your cause at all either. You don’t want to make it too obvious that you are complimenting her to get laid, so just make sure it comes up in a casual and normal manner.

Make her feel comfortable

One of the best things you can do when it comes to having sex on the first date is to make her feel as comfortable as possible right from the start. The more comfortable she is, the better your chances are going to be of getting lucky when you finally get back to your place.

Starting off the night right can really make all the difference, so you will have to keep that in mind. It is also important that you keep the date moving along as smoothly as possible with minimal awkward silences. The last thing you want is for them to be a lot of silence when you are in a bar, restaurant or anywhere else where conversation is expected.

If you want to come off as confident as possible to her, you will need to make a point of keeping the conversation going without looking like a total idiot at the same time. This can be a little bit tricky, but practice makes perfect.

Start making your moves early on

When you start making moves on the girl that you are on a date with early on, asking the question won’t be quite so difficult. This could mean gently caressing her arm or thigh when you are in some public place together early on in the evening. The earlier you start doing this the better, because you definitely don’t want to wait until it’s too late. Men who hesitate and wait too long to start making their moves always end up regretting it.
You should start making your moves from the moment you meet her, giving her a hug and maybe even squeezing her butt. This is a dominant move that will show her that you are a very confident guy. Keep repeating physical contact even if she doesn’t touch you back, because chances are she is going to love it.
The last thing you want to do is wait until the end of the night to start making your moves, because by then it will likely be too late. By starting with some subtle moves early on in the evening, you will drastically increase your chances of getting laid by the end of the night.

Many guys make the mistake of not sending out any signals whatsoever throughout the date, which makes their attempt at getting laid later on seem too blunt and tactless. If you make the right moves early on in the first date, the girl will be more receptive to the idea of having sex once you have done your dinner and a movie or whatever.

Don’t act nervous

You also want to make sure that you don’t act too nervous, because this can quickly kill things between the two of you. The fact is that acting nervous is a sign that you are not confident, which is the last thing that you want to put out there. Keep your cool at all times when you are on a date with a girl, because otherwise you are going to blow it.

If you are feeling particularly nervous before the date, you might want to have a drink beforehand just to calm down a little bit.
Confidence is the most important thing when it comes to asking a girl to have sex with you on the first date. If you don’t come off as being completely confident, you are never going to get anywhere. You don’t want to be too forceful when asking a girl to sleep with you, but at the same time you also want to come across as being very confident in yourself mentally and physically.

Take her back to your place

Make sure that you take her back your place so that you will have the home field advantage so to speak. By doing this

you will be able to increase your chances of feeling confident and not making any stupid mistakes. One of the biggest reasons that guys fail when it comes to getting girls to have sex with them on the first date is because they chose to go to the girl’s place. In the end you will definitely be glad you chose to follow this advice.
Another good reason for you to go back to your place with the girl is so that she will feel more obligated to have sex with you, which is a good thing for obvious reasons.

 You don’t want to put too much pressure on her, but you also don’t want her to be able to say no easily. You will find that you’ll feel a whole lot more confident if you end up taking her back to your place, so you’ll need to remember this when deciding what to do at the end of the night.

Be Polite about it

If you really want to increase your chances of getting a girl to sleep with you on the first date, you will absolutely need to make sure that you are polite about it. Don’t simply say “So, are we going to fuck?” or “do you want to have sex?” Most women are not going to respond to this kind of blunt and direct approach, so you will have to be polite and tactful.

Getting a girl to sleep with you on the first date is more about what you do than what you say.

By this I mean that you should touch her in a subtle yet sexy way throughout the date, building up the sexual tension until she craves release
These days a lot of guys are still far too tactless when it comes to asking if a girl will sleep with them on the first date. Most girls won’t admit that they are willing to have sex with a guy they just met, but they will do it if the guy approaches it in the right way.

Most guys don’t need any convincing when it comes to having sex, but girls need to be finessed. You cannot expect to get laid on the first date if you are going to go balls out with your intentions, so to speak.